Ep 2. What is Mary Richards Really Like?

What is Mary Richards Really Like? is the second episode of the third season of The Mary Tyler Moore Show. The episode aired on September 23, 1972, and was directed by Jay Sandrich with the teleplay written by James L. Brooks and Allan Burns.

The episode begins with Mary Richards receiving a letter from an old high school friend named Sandy Franks. Sandy writes that she is coming to Minneapolis and would like to meet up with Mary. Mary is thrilled about the prospect of seeing her old friend again after so many years.

As she prepares for Sandy’s visit, Mary starts to worry about how she will be perceived by her old friend. She begins to question her own personality and wonder if she has become too boring and predictable. Mary’s co-workers at WJM-TV try to reassure her, but Mary remains anxious about the upcoming reunion.

Later that day, Sandy arrives at Mary’s apartment. The two friends are overjoyed to see each other and begin catching up on old times. However, it quickly becomes apparent to Mary that Sandy doesn’t think very highly of her current life. Sandy criticizes Mary’s job, her lack of romantic relationships, and even her choice in clothing. Mary starts to feel embarrassed and inadequate in Sandy’s presence.

The situation only worsens when Sandy meets Mary’s boss, Lou Grant, who also happens to be at Mary’s apartment. Sandy makes a rude remark about Lou’s appearance, prompting an angry response from Lou. The tension between the two reaches a boiling point when Sandy insinuates that Lou is attracted to Mary.

The next day at work, Mary receives a call from Sandy who apologizes for her behavior the night before. Sandy admits that she was jealous of Mary’s success and happy life. Mary forgives her friend, but is left feeling uncomfortable about the visit.

What is Mary Richards Really Like? explores themes of friendship, self-doubt, and social status. The episode highlights the pressure people feel to fit certain expectations and the toll it can take on their mental health. Mary’s insecurities about herself and her life are relatable to many viewers. The episode also touches on the importance of forgiving others and the power of apologies.

The performances in this episode are superb, particularly by Mary Tyler Moore and her guest star, Paula Prentiss. Moore portrays Mary’s vulnerability and insecurities with grace and nuance. Prentiss captures Sandy’s jealousy and bitterness in a way that makes the character both unlikable but also sympathetic.

What is Mary Richards Really Like? is a standout episode of The Mary Tyler Moore Show. Its themes and character dynamics are timeless, making it a must-watch for fans of the show and newcomers alike.