Ep 3. HE SAYS HE LOVES ME...WHY DOES HE TORTURE ME?
- October 23, 2002
In season 4, episode 3 of Maury, titled "He Says He Loves Me...Why Does He Torture Me?", the focus is on troubled relationships and the pursuit of answers. Maury Povich, the host of the show, welcomes a variety of guests who are looking for guidance and resolution in their romantic relationships.
The episode begins with a young woman named Taylor, who is struggling to understand why her boyfriend, Marcus, treats her so poorly despite professing his love for her. Taylor tells Maury that Marcus has broken up with her multiple times, only to come back and ask for her forgiveness. She also shares that he has made hurtful comments about her appearance and accused her of cheating on him, despite having no evidence to support these claims. Taylor admits that although she loves Marcus, his behavior is tearing her apart.
Maury brings out Marcus, who denies Taylor's accusations and counters that she has been distant and unfaithful during their relationship. He claims that he loves her deeply and wants to make things work, but is frustrated by her lack of commitment. Maury attempts to mediate the conversation between the two, but tensions rise as they continue to argue over who is at fault for their problems.
Next, Maury welcomes a couple named Jake and Katie, who have been together for six years but are struggling to maintain a healthy relationship. Katie reveals that Jake is addicted to pornography and spends hours each day watching pornographic videos and images. She expresses her feelings of betrayal and disgust, noting that Jake's obsession with porn has affected their intimacy and caused her to question her self-worth.
Jake admits that he has a problem with pornography, but insists that he loves Katie and is trying to change his behavior. He explains that he uses porn as a coping mechanism for stress and anxiety, but acknowledges that it has become an addiction that is causing damage to their relationship. Maury offers Jake resources for seeking help for his addiction, and advises Katie to seek counseling to work through her trauma and feelings of betrayal.
In the final segment of the episode, Maury welcomes a high school couple, Emily and Tyler, who are grappling with accusations of infidelity. Emily claims that Tyler has cheated on her multiple times, including with her own best friend. Tyler denies the allegations, and accuses Emily of being possessive and jealous. The two exchange heated accusations and insults, with neither willing to back down from their version of events.
Maury brings out a lie detector test to determine the truth about Tyler's fidelity. After a tense few minutes, the results are revealed- Tyler has indeed cheated on Emily with multiple partners, including her best friend. Emily tearfully confronts Tyler, and the two exchange a few final words before the episode ends.
Overall, this episode of Maury delves into the complicated and often painful world of romantic relationships. Despite the different circumstances that each guest faces, the underlying themes of trust, betrayal, and love are present throughout. Maury offers his guests a space to air their grievances and seek guidance, but ultimately it is up to them to decide how to move forward.