Ep 13. 99 Problems and My Mom Is One

In season 10 episode 13 of Iyanla, Fix My Life, entitled "99 Problems and My Mom Is One," life coach Iyanla Vanzant tackles the complex relationship between a mother and daughter. The episode follows Alicia, a mother of four who has a strained relationship with her own mother, Margaret. Despite their history of conflict, Alicia continues to turn to her mother for support but struggles with her mom's lack of emotional availability.

The episode begins with Iyanla meeting with Alicia and Margaret separately to get a better understanding of their dynamic. Alicia describes feeling unfulfilled by her relationship with her mother, as Margaret has always prioritized her career over her family. Margaret, on the other hand, doesn't understand why Alicia is so unhappy with their relationship and becomes defensive when Iyanla suggests that she has contributed to their issues.

Throughout the episode, Iyanla works with both women to help them better communicate their feelings and understand each other's perspectives. She encourages Alicia to express her emotions honestly and openly to her mother, while also guiding Margaret to see the ways in which her own experiences have shaped her parenting style.

Through a series of exercises and conversations, Iyanla helps Alicia and Margaret to confront their deepest fears and vulnerabilities, ultimately leading to a breakthrough in their relationship. The episode culminates in a heartfelt conversation between the mother and daughter, where they both express their love for each other and commit to working on their relationship going forward.

"99 Problems and My Mom Is One" is a powerful and emotional episode that highlights the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Through Iyanla's guidance, Alicia and Margaret are able to move past their long-standing issues and begin to heal their relationship, proving that it's never too late to work on family bonds.