Ep 5. The One With Phoebe's Birthday Dinner

The One With Phoebe's Birthday Dinner is the fifth episode of the ninth season of the popular TV show Friends. The episode begins with Phoebe's excitement over her birthday dinner, and she eagerly awaits the arrival of her two old roommates, Monica and Rachel, to come celebrate with her.

However, things quickly take a turn when Monica arrives with a surprise guest - her childhood friend, Emily. Emily is in town for a few days for work and Monica wants to catch up with her. Phoebe is less than thrilled about the surprise addition to the guest list, as she is hoping for a low-key evening with just her closest friends.

The group heads out to the restaurant, where Phoebe's disappointment only grows. Emily begins talking non-stop about her job and her life in London, dominating the conversation. Phoebe begins to feel neglected and left out, and her friends do not seem to notice.

Meanwhile, Joey is struggling with the idea of getting a vasectomy. He confides in Chandler, who tries to offer support but is only met with Joey's panic and reluctance. Chandler tries to help Joey understand the benefits of the procedure, but Joey remains unconvinced.

Back at the dinner, Ross arrives late, much to Phoebe's delight. She is pleased to see him and hopes he can save the evening. However, Ross seems preoccupied with his new girlfriend, Mona, and Phoebe continues to feel left out.

The group moves to the living room for a nightcap, where Phoebe finally has enough. She confronts her friends about their behavior, telling them how neglected and unhappy she is feeling. The group realizes their mistake and apologizes, promising to make it up to her.

The episode ends with Joey deciding to go through with the vasectomy, and the group comes together to sing Happy Birthday to Phoebe.

The One With Phoebe's Birthday Dinner explores the theme of feeling forgotten and left out, as Phoebe struggles with her friends' lack of attention on her special day. The episode also touches on the idea of making difficult decisions and the importance of support from friends in those times. Overall, it is a relatable and heartwarming episode that captures the spirit of the beloved show Friends.