Ep 19. Battle of the Sexes (1)
- TV-PG
- February 19, 1987
- 25 min
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6.8 (94)
The episode "Battle of the Sexes (1)" of the beloved 80s sitcom Family Ties revolves around gender roles and expectations. Steven and Elyse decide to host a party, and while Elyse handles the food and decorations, Steven is in charge of the entertainment. However, when Steven suggests they play a game of touch football, the women object. The men argue that the game is for everyone, but the women insist that it's a male-dominated activity that excludes them.
Later, Steven and Elyse go out to dinner with their friends and the topic of sexism comes up. Steven insists that he doesn't believe in it, but Elyse points out that he takes certain things for granted just because he's a man. He never has to worry about being taken seriously in the workplace or being objectified in public. Seeing this, Steven starts to question his own beliefs and whether he's been unconsciously contributing to a sexist culture.
Meanwhile, Mallory and Nick are having their own battles over gender expectations. Mallory is taking a sociology course and has started to question the traditional gender roles that she's been accustomed to. She's furious when Nick wants her to help him fix his car, arguing that he wouldn't expect a man to help him. Nick thinks it's a simple matter of "guy stuff," but Mallory sees it as a sexist expectation.
The men and women of the Keaton family eventually decide to settle their differences by each making a list of what they believe are stereotypically masculine and feminine traits. The lists are revealing, with each side realizing that they hold certain prejudices and biases. In the end, they all agree that gender roles are nuanced and that everyone should be free to pursue their interests regardless of gender.
"Battle of the Sexes (1)" is an engaging and thought-provoking episode that tackles important issues of gender and sexism, all while keeping the humor and heart that made Family Ties such a beloved show. It shows how even well-intentioned individuals can perpetuate harmful societal norms and how it takes honest self-reflection to break free from them. It's a must-watch for any fans of the series and a timeless exploration of what it means to be a man or a woman in our society.